Why use a dildo?
1. Dildos are the best do-it-your-own-way sex toy. Unlike a vibrator, a dildo doesn't move on its own. In fact, it doesn't do anything you don't make it do.
2. Dildo can be used as a placeholder for couples - If the man climaxes early, or even if the woman just takes a longer time than her lover, he can continue to penetrate her with the dildo. That way sexual play doesn't stop and your partner can recharge his batteries and get back in the game.
3. Great vagina therapy - The vagina that is created is not very elastic and needs to be worked. That's where the dildo comes into play, especially right after surgery. By inserting the dildo daily, the vagina will stay elastic and not close up.
4. Some people love the sensation of feeling fulfilled in their vagina or anus. Whenever a toy, penis, dildo penetrates the vagina or anus, the muscles contract around it. Many people find this tightening of the muscles to be extremely pleasurable.
5. Penetrating your partner with a dildo can make a fantasy of power play reality. Penetrating your partner with a dildo gives you a real up close and personal view of your lover's vagina or anus taking the dildo.
6. Can use alone. When used alone, a dildo can help a person experiment with different forms of penetration without the anxiety of a lover being present.
7. Can use during oral sex. As you're engaging in oral sex on your partner, why not use a dildo to penetrate her at the same time? Fingers and hands are very erotic, but using a dildo is very pleasurable for her and will ease fatigue and stress that the giver may experience after a while.
8. Dildos can be a very good form of safe sex. As long as your dildo is wearing a condom, you'll never have to worry about infecting yourself with dangerous bacteria and you can share your toy with a partner. Just change the condom before your partner uses it.
9. Double Penetration- Individuals or couples who are playing with dildos can experiment safely with double penetration as long as condoms and lubricant are used, and the sex play is slow and controlled by the partner being penetrated.
10. Bend over boyfriend - Specifically for heterosexual couples interested in exploring male anal play. It involves a female partner strapping on a dildo and penetrating her male partner.