Shipping is paid by the buyer. I have been selling on ebay for 23 years, I am accurate in the weight and size of the package. I look for the best shipping price and often give you a choice as distance determines the cost.
I do not sell on approval and check items very carefully. I do not issue refunds all items are insured. It is up to you to read the description for the condition and what is included with the item you purchase.