I don't have a lot of silly rules for buyers: Pay for your item and I'll send it you. I've been a buyer and a seller on eBay for more than 25 years and have a near perfect feedback record. I'll trust you and you can trust me to do right.
Please use the eBay shipping calculator to estimate your shipping cost inside the US.
Why don't I offer free shipping? There's no such thing as "free" shipping. Sellers have to recover the cost of shipping. When "free" shipping is offered the seller has buried the average cost of shipping the item in the price. This means that buyers who are far away and would have to pay more for shipping get a discount while buyers who are close to the seller and would pay less are overcharged. This is especially true for large or heavy items. I don't think this is fair, so I don't offer free shipping.